My boyfriend of 3 years recently opened up a Facebook page. He had it opened for 2 weeks and added his ex girlfriend and other girls from his college. He is aware I have a page on Facebook and hasn’t added me as a friend or requested me but continually is on Facebook adding his girlfriends. I feel disrespected and almost like he is cheating on me by deliberately having this behind my back. I should mention that this is one of over 50 incidents

This kind of behavior isn’t just about Facebook; it fits a larger pattern of secrecy and boundary‑breaking. When a man keeps a “second” social presence, adds his ex, and excludes you from his own profile, he’s choosing to keep parts of his life hidden rather than building transparency. Emotional cheating and online infidelity often start this way: subtle, repeated choices that slowly erode trust rather than crashing it all at once.

This is clearly inappropriate behavior. It sounds like you have reasons not to trust him and he continues to give you more reasons. After three years, you guys ought to be able to log onto each other’s Facebook accounts. Everything should be on the table. If he's not willing to remove his ex, it's time for you to reconsider whether or not you really want to be in this relationship. Social media boundaries are part of emotional fidelity

When someone does “girl‑things” behind your back this often, it signals that respect and honesty are not his default setting. You deserve a relationship where your presence is public, not a secret his ex and friends can see before you do. If you ask for basic transparency and he refuses, that answer itself is the relationship verdict. You can either keep chasing crumbs of attention or choose a partner whose digital life matches what he says in person.